Thanks for the considered reply. I didn’t actually say that love is exchanged between the porn viewer & subject. Just that the Bible doesn’t condemn either, and doesn’t permit condemnation. We’re here in life to learn, and the cultivation of a loving mutuality is a project that would happen with time and practice. Even being able to speak of sex publicly is a new development. The Christian tradition warred on it, and porn seems to have been part of the process of overcoming that restriction.